Jon and me with our Mermaid hair at Iguazu Falls, Argentina, March 2025 I had a moment the other day which made me wonder if my life is...

Two years ago this month my husband Bill died, leaving me, his family and friends to mourn his loss and find a way forward without him....

Sunday evenings at my house are known as ‘steak night.’ Most of you in my regular orbit know about steak night and how this is a sacred,...

Over the last 19 months, I’ve spent several weeks in Portugal, Costa Rica and Columbia to escape daily life and the void left by my...

When someone sends you a message they are closing the door to you, it should come equipped with a deadbolt and alarm system so you cannot...

Burn out  is common with online dating and at some point most of us find we need to get off the apps, clean out our inboxes and take a...

I was man-browsing one evening on the Facebook Dating platform which is never a good idea because there is no barrier to entry – it’s...

Bill and me in Lodi, CA, 2021 “A Wiccan, narcissist and adulterer walk into a bar…” This is not a poor ChatGPT joke. I actually matched...

There is no chapter in the vintage Dr. Spock’s Baby and Childcare (one of the best-selling books of the 20th century) for what to do...

Dating apps have more ghosts than a New Orleans cemetery and they are not friendly, notorious or have a great story. These ghosts are...

Since launching this blog six weeks ago, I have been honored to have some deep and profound conversations about loss, love, death, grief,...

The world is full of signs - subtle, precautionary, and those which are obvious and impossible to miss. And yet, when entering dating...

I’m on my way to have dinner with some dude who I’m not sure I’m at all interested in, but checks a lot of existential boxes and I need...

The price of love today runs the average single person between $19 to $100 a month to expose yourself on popular dating apps.  Inflation...

(I actually have a 1964 Red Corvair convertible in my garage, ergo the image above.) Endings are just beginnings in disguise, whether we...

As far as I’m concerned, the only thing that happened in the entire world in 2023 is that my husband died. I faintly remember other...